
I have been putting a lot of thought into "First Times", it has actually put me in quite a rut. My brain wont stop thinking about this quote, "There is a first time for everything". I think it has been causing me quite a stir as I have actually been experiencing and witnessing many "Firsts" lately.
Maggie's first date with dad and how excited she was.
My first time
unenrolling a child from school and how nervous I was.
Spencer's first day of
home school and his request, "Give me a break it's my first day."
Maggie's first loose tooth that is driving us all batty, "Just take pliers and pull it out, please."
My first day homeschooling my kids and hoping that I would enjoy it and not have any regrets.
Jeremiah's first time building a model airplane, "I just need one more part."
I could go on and on.......
On Matthew and Spencer's first day of Skate Boarding class their teacher had on a pin that said, "It's my first time." I was feeling a little cheated as I work for the city too and I never got a pin. He said that he got it from donating blood but he wears it all of the time. He says he likes to wear it because whenever he does it is his "First Time". I love that! He said he got pulled over and pointed to his pin and said, " Please, give me a break it's my first time."
Can you imagine how people would treat you if they thought that it was your "
First Time". At the grocery store I am sure they would be more helpful, the dentist would be more gentle, the fast food workers would be more understanding when you just need one more minute, and of course it wouldn't be such a big deal that you forgot to flush. Do you remember being at the hospital delivering your FIRST child,
opposed to being at the hospital delivering your fourth? That is exactly what I am talking about.
Thinking about this has made me think about how the older we get the less "First Times" we experience. Did you know that I was 22 years old before I went to Disney Land, Sea World, and the beach for the first time. Holy Cow! And I went there right after I was married for the first time and I just happened to be on my first Honey Moon. I think not visiting theme parks was a bigger bummer for my parents as I LOVED watching my kids experience all of these things for the first time. As a matter of fact being so aware of "First Times" lately has been great because I have been more aware when they are taking place. Just the other day Kendal got a
band aid for the first time and she cried because she wanted it OFF. "I don't like
band aides!"
Do first times scare you? Do you fear them? I guess I get a sort of uneasiness when I am venturing into the unknown. Don't tell, but the first time I put my foot on the
Rip Stick I was pretty sure the other foot was staying on the ground. The first time that other foot went onto the Rip Stick I started to feel a little better. AND the first time I actually stayed on the Rip Stick my uneasiness began to vanish. Another uneasiness, OK fear, is going somewhere for the "First Time". Directions scare me! Once I find the place I am good from there on out, except the Temple. I still feel uneasy
every time I venture to the Temple on my own, good thing it is so calming and peaceful once I get there.
So, why all the commotion about "First Times"? I have experienced some really great first times lately that I don't want to forget. Also, I am hoping that by putting my thoughts down it will free up some space in my brain. Who wants to spend time thinking about "First Times" when they can be thinking about "This Time" or "Next Time"?